How often have you survived an extremely difficult season only to realize later on (sometimes much later) that it was really a blessing in disguise? Nikki’s accident, and subsequent recovery, was one of those for me—and for Nikki, as well. For me, it was an opportunity to reconnect with my daughter in a very real way. For months before her car accident, it seemed as if we were constantly at odds. But along with her brain injury came a rebirth of sorts.
It wasn’t easy. Nikki was dealing with all the side effects of brain injury—anger, depression, frustration…the list goes on. But I learned patience, compassion and gratitude. Oh, such gratitude that God spared her life. We found common ground once again and were able to find the good. I once had a pastor who would remind us always to look for the good. It’s there if we’re just willing to look hard enough to find it.
In my novel, Illusions, Corey Schaffer and daughter Taylor struggle through much of the same issues. Their story, however, is elevated quite a bit for dramatic effect and to make the story much more interesting. I am not Corey Schaffer, and although I based Taylor on Nikki, she is not Taylor. I was, however, able to use the emotions of that time in writing their story.
I would love it if you could share, briefly or not, a time when you found blessings in the aftermath of a difficult season or circumstance. Just leave it in the comments below. Or, if you aren’t comfortable doing that, you’re welcome to connect with me privately in the contact form. It would be an honor to pray for your needs.
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I’m working at it daily. Losing my home to fire has been a challenge. Praying for peace and joy in my circumstances is a simple task, but feeling it is difficult. Without my church family I could not be where I am today.
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I completely know what you mean. Praying for you, Kathy!
Very Inspiring!